Tips and Tricks How to Deal With Lady Bosses

"She can not be a boss. Too emotional."

"Boss girl was bummer. Acne. Mood can not predict."

"Why the hell take care of the details. The great affair is even too. Basic women!"

So my friends opinion of a female boss. Remarkably, the opinion is not only out of the mouth of the Adam, but also women themselves. They claim to be happy led by the boss man for various reasons including, not moody, rarely bring personal problems to the office, do not micromanage, easy going, lead based on skill, and so forth.

How in my own opinion? Well, I've worked with a female boss sucks but also worked with the fun. I admit that only one of those statements. Many women bosses micromanage. The rest, depending on the woman's own personality. The boss man is also a lot of really acting like a presumption against female boss.

The problem is just one. Men more than women occupy top positions. Until now, no women at the top, then she would be under the spotlight and eventually be compared with the many male boss. Period!

So how to deal with unpleasant female boss?

1. Do not take it personal

     Usually the boss lady moody and irritable, often remarks, comments or scolding that would offend. She will also install soffit line with what comes out of his mouth. Hey, the work is just one part of life. So, do not enter into the heart the words that come out of the mouth of our superiors.

2. Understand the boss

     As a subordinate, we should be able to understand the attitude of our superiors. Their attitude must be a reason, though often the reason is personal. Usually, bad attitude of the boss lady has something to do with her personal problems. Consider carefully how she walked, how his family background, success it with her life partner. If we understand that she has personal problems, plus a huge responsibility on the job, then maybe we can be more tolerant. We will feel more grateful that our conditions better than herself. In the end, we will smile proudly that we can better cope with personal problems so do not bring to the workplace.

3. Deal with it

     She's the boss, and we are subordinate. However she has more power in our appeal. If we want to survive then we must accept the work of her attitude. Silence would be less draining than we are in conflict therewith. Flush the brain and heart to more important things such as the work itself.

4. Work for the work not for your boss

     Most people try to work to please her superiors. But when faced with the boss lady sucks, trying to please attitude is the most wrong thing to do. Because usually, they have an extremely high standard. When we were not able to provide appropriate what she wants, then we will be frustrated. So when we work, work as well as possible for our work is not working as well as possible so that The Boss is happy with the results.

5. Speak up

     Than we are complaining about bicycling and how her leadership, delivered directly to our boss personally. Delivers what we do not like and how it affects your performance and other team members. But the condition persists because usually no one wants to call it. It takes courage to say it. Striking a little ego with professionally done nothing wrong. But we must also be prepared if her attitude was more bad or we could be removed from the workplace.

6. Quit

     If all that we have done to no avail and we can not accept the way of leadership, then we should think of other jobs.

Have you apply one of the above? Please let me know on the result.